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by John Tavares<\/span><\/p>\n

The pain beneath Lee\u2019s breastbone and in his back and arm twisted like a hot coil in soft <\/span>tissue, so he grimaced and clutched his chest. When Bruin noticed the principal gritting his teeth, <\/span>looking pained, he grew concerned. Bruin, listening to Lee describe the symptoms, said what <\/span>ailed him did not sound like heartburn or indigestion, and advised him to see a doctor. <\/span>Meanwhile, Bruin said that reminded him: the school needed to invite a flight paramedic <\/span>from the air ambulance service to speak at the career day open house. He got the idea after he <\/span>assigned a theme on a life changing event to his class. He read Amy\u2019s essay indicating she <\/span>wanted to become a flight paramedic, and her composition left him impressed with its passion <\/span>and conviction.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lee massaged his chest and arm with a pained expression and told Bruin he did not want <\/span>to be like his predecessor. In the morning, at the start of classes, he did not want to stand in the <\/span>main doors to the high school before the opening bell, holding his wristwatch in his hand, <\/span>watching the secondhand tick, seeking students and teachers wandering the hallways a minute or <\/span>two after the opening bell rang. He did not want to spend the school days locked away in the <\/span>principal\u2019s office, fretting over classroom schedules, avoiding telephone calls from parents, <\/span>obsessing over office supplies, organizing his desk, worrying about missing pens and markers, <\/span>rearranging supplies of paper and toner in the photocopy room. He did not want to lecture the <\/span>student body in the gymnasium during their orientation, preaching about everything they should <\/span>not do, emphasizing they were not to exhibit overt signs of affection anywhere in high school. <\/span>He did not want to hand out detentions and suspensions; he wanted to give encouragement and <\/span>inspiration. He wanted to have a positive impact on the careers and educations of his students. <\/span>Lee wanted his students to succeed throughout high school and contribute to the betterment of <\/span>their lives and society and, yes, the community, which continued to see tough times after the <\/span>radar base had been decommissioned and the sawmill shuttered forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lee hired Bruin believing he was one of the more unlikely, successful students to have <\/span>graduated from their high school. Bruin had certainly taken a rocky route in life recently, and his <\/span>path towards becoming a teacher had been unusual. But Lee ignored the advice of another <\/span>teacher and the hiring committee, which was merely a school board trustee and the vice-<\/span>principal. Lee went ahead and hired his former geography and history student.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy told Bruin that she had a reading and public speaking phobia. That was the reason <\/span>that she could not perform the dramatic recital. Amy told him quietly at his desk after he walked <\/span>the aisles of the classroom of grade nine students, asking them which Shakespearean speech or <\/span>monologue they wanted to read and recite. He went around the English classroom wearing his <\/span>suit and tie, stained with coffee, his scuffed shoes, and his cologne. This was the first course in <\/span>Shakespeare that he taught; this was the first year that he worked as a schoolteacher. Likewise, <\/span>this was only Lee\u2019s second year as principal; previously, he taught history and geography.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin had been a financial advisor, a stockbroker, and a derivatives trader, but then his <\/span>firm was caught in a massive insider trading scandal. He was also personally fined tens of <\/span>thousands of dollars as a result, which also wiped out any equity and savings he had built over <\/span>the years. He also discovered that he was tainted, damaged goods in the securities industry, and <\/span>he could not get hired by any other firms afterwards.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, he decided to pursue his original goal of becoming a high school teacher, even though <\/span>he now believed that aspiration was something of a cop out. He admitted during his job interview <\/span>with Lee that if you were not of a certain personality and character, high school teaching could <\/span>be personally demanding work. Now in his first year of teaching, he faced a student with a <\/span>problem similar to his own when he struggled in high school.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin asked to see Amy after school, a time more suitable to discuss the issue. He sat at <\/span>his desk grading papers, drinking coffee, which he should have avoided, because the caffeine <\/span>caused him jitters and anxiety. He thought about what he would say to her, the best way to <\/span>approach this problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy arrived for the appointment with a frosty can of cola from the vending machine in <\/span>the cafeteria. She sat in the bare minimalist student\u2019s desk at the front row across from Bruin at <\/span>his large wooden desk, with the hardwood podium dividing them. Amy arrived in her jean jacket, <\/span>baseball cap, coveralls, and with her backpack, filled with books and school assignments. Her <\/span>backpack emanated the smell of fish. Bruin guessed the reason for that bit of fish odor was <\/span>because she worked, filleting and gutting fish, for her father, who owned and operated a <\/span>commercial fishing operation. Amy filleted and gutted walleye, whitefish, and red sucker in her <\/span>father\u2019s fish processing plant on the shores of the long mysterious lake and reservoir of Lac Seul <\/span>near Sioux Lookout. Amy also occasionally worked on the fishing boat, handling gill nets, <\/span>piloting the trawler.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin mentioned offhand he and her father, high school classmates years ago, had briefly <\/span>discussed the issue at their last parent-teacher interview. They had merely touched upon the <\/span>issue; but her father wanted him, or them, to try to first work through the issue personally and <\/span>individually, or with the help of her teachers only. Her father did not want to seek professional <\/span>help because he had lost faith and confidence in the medical and social work professions; he <\/span>believed that the professionals, psychologists, and psychiatrists had only made Amy\u2019s mother\u2019s <\/span>condition worse. He believed the doctors and psychiatrists had gotten her addicted to prescription <\/span>drugs until she met her untimely demise. He refused to accept the doctor and coroner\u2019s <\/span>conclusion she committed suicide.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now Bruin wondered, having never known the circumstances surrounding her death.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin wondered if Amy\u2019s phobia had some origin in her mother\u2019s demise. But Bruin also <\/span>realized that speculation about causation was of no help to him currently. And her father merely <\/span>wanted them to deal with the issue themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy told him that she could not do the reading.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cOk. So, you\u2019ve chosen Mark Antony\u2019s eulogy, his funeral oration, for Julius Caesar. <\/span>How did you know this is one of my favorite passages from Shakespeare?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t know.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cAre you sure your father did not choose it? It just seems like a passage your father might <\/span>like.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cNo. I chose it because I like the speech. My father never does my homework.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThat is wonderful. So why don\u2019t you just read the passage now.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy read the passage perfectly, resonantly, with the enunciation and diction of a <\/span>Shakespearean actor, albeit one her age. Bruin felt most impressed, and he applauded. He told <\/span>Amy she was a skilled performer, who possessed talent. \u201cAnd, you see, that was not a problem. <\/span>You did not seem self-conscious, or self-aware. You just did it. So why don\u2019t you just try it on <\/span>Monday, like the rest of the students.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBecause I can\u2019t face the class and read it. I\u2019ll choke, I\u2019ll stumble, I\u2019ll stutter and <\/span>stammer. I might even get physically sick.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin confessed, when he was her age, he had the same problem. The phobia plagued <\/span>him all through high school, so that he skipped class and missed classroom discussions, lectures, <\/span>and assignments. His grades suffered, but he never disclosed the true reasons to his teachers, so <\/span>they thought he had become a truant and a juvenile delinquent. He even dropped out of high <\/span>school, and later went to community college, where he eventually overcame the problem, <\/span>possibly because the atmosphere in the college seminars was usually relaxed, informal, collegial.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin explained he did not want her to face similar challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cDo you understand?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy nodded.<\/span><\/p>\n

Did she want to know how he thought it started for him personally?<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy shrugged and averted her face as she rolled her eyes backwards. She felt distracted <\/span>and glanced through the open door into the hallway, where lockers crashed shut amidst loud <\/span>laughter and chatter. Bruin said when he was a student in Catholic grade school, the spring <\/span>before graduation, the students had undergone intensive personal and religious training to receive <\/span>the Catholic sacrament of confirmation. <\/span>The event dominated the spring schedule for the <\/span>confirmands\u2014proved as big as the graduation from Catholic school itself. The grade seven and <\/span>eight students preparing for the sacrament and ceremony were feted by their parents, guardians, <\/span>and the sponsors, and parishioners at a Saturday night mass. A parent active in the church who <\/span>volunteered in helping behind the scenes made a last-minute request to the adolescent Bruin to <\/span>thank the selfless priest for helping them prepare for confirmation.<\/span><\/p>\n

When he went up to deliver that speech, he realized he was unprepared. Then he noticed <\/span>the hundreds of people in the church. He stumbled and stammered over his words, which he <\/span>perceived as virtually incoherent and nonsensical. He thought he made a complete fool and ass <\/span>out of himself, especially after the priest joked, saying he thought Bruin was going to ask for <\/span>permission to go to the washroom. The entire church, suddenly in a mood of hilarity, broke into <\/span>laughter. Bruin never felt so humiliated and embarrassed in his life.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cDoes that make sense to you?\u201d Bruin asked.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cYes.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cCan we just give it a try Monday? Can\u2019t we just take the bull by the horns, as your father <\/span>would say, and try to work through the problem ourselves? As I mentioned, I spoke with your <\/span>father.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy became upset Bruin said he had spoken with her father, and she winced and looked <\/span>taken aback.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI think he agreed we should give it a try.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cCan I go now?\u201d Amy asked. \u201cI need to be at work.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cCan we give this a try on Monday?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t see what choice I have.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

On Monday when Bruin arrived for class, with his mug of fresh coffee, he realized she <\/span>was the most photogenic student in his class. He never noticed previously because he usually <\/span>paid no attention to her or any other student\u2019s looks. Now it was difficult for him not to notice <\/span>her grooming and dress. The steel buttons of her perfectly fitting denim shirt were unbuttoned l<\/span>ow down her chest. She wore cowboy boots, a cropped denim jacket, a short denim skirt, and a <\/span>tight shirt, which fit perfectly and which she left open. He had never seen her wear a dress <\/span>before. She allowed her long brushed hair to flow over her shoulders, and she wore makeup and <\/span>lipstick. He thought she looked as handsome as any Hollywood teen celebrity.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin had scheduled three students for this Monday, and her reading was scheduled to be <\/span>the last. Towards the end of class, he called upon Amy to make her dramatic recital.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin asked her if she would be more comfortable if she sat down at her desk, but she <\/span>might perform better if she stood. He could barely hear her say, yes. With adrenaline pumping <\/span>throughout her system, she felt warm and flushed. As soon as she stood everyone saw her limbs <\/span>trembling. Her face turned crimson, and she broke into a profuse sweat, yet the room was cool, <\/span>after Mr. Bruin cleared his throat and opened the windows at the rear. Amy was breathless, and <\/span>her voice broke and cracked.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy stammered and her voice continued to pause and quaver. She read three lines, and <\/span>Bruin was ready to thank her for her spirited performance and say she could sit down, after he <\/span>realized his error. But she threw down her English textbook, property of Queen Elizabeth District <\/span>High School, the complete volume of Shakespeare, the plays, comedies, tragedies, histories, and <\/span>the sonnets, on her desk and her loose note paper and pens and pencils scattered.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI hate you!\u201d Amy shouted in a very loud, clear, and resonant voice. \u201cI hate you! I hate <\/span>you! I hate you! You\u2019re a horrible man, just terrible. I told you I couldn\u2019t do it, but you made me, <\/span>and I couldn\u2019t, and now look. I just fucking hate you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy burst from the front door of the classroom sobbing and crying. Later, Bruin thought <\/span>if she was one of the more popular students in the class or one of the school princesses, some of <\/span>the girls would have chased after her for moral support. Instead, the whole class sat in stunned <\/span>silence, as half the students stared at him, and the other half glanced at her, fleeing the classroom <\/span>through the back door, into the empty corridor. Through the row of classroom windows, her <\/span>classmates could see her fleeing from the school outside the doors and across the lawn to the <\/span>walkway. Then they stared and glared at Bruin, who froze where he stood in front of the <\/span>classroom of expectant students. Then Bruin realized he could not face the class. Bruin feared he <\/span>had irreparably traumatized her. Grade eight confirmation at Sacred Heart School decades ago <\/span>recurred all over again for them both.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now again Bruin was full of humility, embarrassment, and fear, and he could not face the <\/span>class. The students looked at him with such deadly serious expressions, seeking leadership and <\/span>guidance through the crisis, and he could not step up and provide. He felt frozen, afraid to face <\/span>his classroom of students, and he feared he could not face them again. This, this classroom, in his <\/span>hometown high school, was not the place for him. Feeling defeated, he grabbed his mug, as if he <\/span>needed a refill of coffee, slipped out of the classroom. Then, outside, after rushing through the <\/span>foyer and the bank of doors, he tossed his favorite coffee mug in the wastebasket. He strode with <\/span>a sense of defeat to his car in the parking lot beside the football field and the athletic track.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin drove home, even though he lived only a short distance away, in the house he had <\/span>inherited in his hometown from his mother; he had been planning to go walleye fishing at Frog <\/span>Rapids bridge after school. He drove home from the high school he had walked to each day when <\/span>he himself was a high school student. He drove away from the only high school that would hire <\/span>him after he returned to university, for his degree in education, as a mature student.<\/span><\/p>\n

After an insider trading scandal overwhelmed Bruin\u2019s career, he departed the securities <\/span>industry, and Lee hired him. Now Bruin sent his resignation, formal, brief, curt, business-like, <\/span>like President Nixon\u2019s resignation letter, the student of history mused. Then Bruin blocked his <\/span>former employer\u2019s telephone number, email, and social media. Bruin decided he was finished <\/span>with whatever career he may have had in education. Yes, he decided he had finished his tenure as <\/span>a high school educator. He did not want to hear from his hometown high school anymore; it was <\/span>enough for one lifetime.<\/span><\/p>\n

Later, Bruin told Lee had just enough money, savings, to last for a few years if that turned <\/span>out to be how long he needed to figure out what to do with the remainder of his life. The school <\/span>sent Lee to visit him, after the teachers lobbied him in the staff room during another teacher\u2019s <\/span>birthday party. During that celebration he suffered more chest pains and shortness of breath, <\/span>which caused some teachers to be concerned, including one who kept feeding him brand name <\/span>antacids from a roll wrapped in foil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lee spoke to Bruin briefly at the screen door since Lee was not invited inside his house. <\/span>Bruin thanked Lee for believing in him, for hiring him to the position of teacher and apologized <\/span>his hire did not work out. Motivated more by curiosity than suspicion, Lee asked if Bruin had <\/span>been drinking. Saying he usually did not consume alcoholic beverages, Bruin wondered aloud if <\/span>Lee had noticed the recycle bin outside, in the backyard, filled with empty coffee containers and <\/span>sugar free soft drink cans. He did not invite the principal who had hired him inside for a coffee.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bruin expressed concern for his former student, saying he hoped Amy was well, not <\/span>suffering any adverse consequences. Having learned his life lesson, Bruin said he did not expect <\/span>to teach any longer; his work as an educator was complete. Bruin said he now felt more <\/span>concerned with the fate of his former pupil. Lee advised him there should be no worries; Bruin <\/span>was officially on paid leave, until the issue was resolved, and they had a substitute teacher to <\/span>cover for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

The school had a psychologist, who visited from Kenora, where the head office of the <\/span>school board was located, and a guidance counsellor, and a social worker who might be able to <\/span>help, Lee reminded Bruin. In fact, a counsellor later came to Bruin\u2019s door to talk to him, but <\/span>Bruin assured him he was fine, even though he lost weight, remained unshaven, grew a beard, <\/span>and gave off a strong body odor. Bruin looked haunted and shell shocked, with a thousand-yard <\/span>stare. Bruin felt inclined to inquire about his former student and how she fared, but he did not <\/span>think it was appropriate, since she was a former pupil, and he was no longer in a position of <\/span>authority.<\/span><\/p>\n

After a few months, the school board sent police for a wellness check on him. The pair of <\/span>police officers shouted through the door they needed to talk. Bruin reassured them he was fine; <\/span>they did not need to break down the door. He had plenty of food, electricity, water, groceries, <\/span>flush toilets. They could go away, and he would feel better. After he found his housecoat, he <\/span>opened the door for the police officers, but by the time he answered they were gone. The officers <\/span>left their business cards and the business cards of a social worker on the steps of the concrete <\/span>stairwell.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy arrived at his door with a gift of fresh fish, walleye, she herself had filleted. Bruin <\/span>told her she could leave the wrapped fresh fish, packaged in translucent plastic freezer bags, in <\/span>the garden shed. Through the screen door he said he loved fish, but he didn\u2019t mention he <\/span>preferred canned fish, because cooking left him annoyed and flustered. To neighbors he even <\/span>gave the fish he caught in the lakes and rivers that surrounded and divided the town.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amy\u2019s father also visited him at his house. Bruin drank the beer and whiskey her father <\/span>brought along, even though he normally did not consume alcoholic beverages, but he felt he <\/span>owed it to the man. They talked about their own high school years and shared interests, hunting, <\/span>fishing, although Bruin had to admit he had not been hunting or fishing for decades, since he was <\/span>a teenager.<\/span><\/p>\n

It would work out, Amy\u2019s father said, as he drank his fourth can of beer. Bruin tried to <\/span>reassure him everything would work out all right and well in the end, especially for Amy and her <\/span>future. Amy\u2019s father promised him he and his daughter both would take him hunting and fishing <\/span>someday soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

A few weeks later, Lee received the letter from the director of education and <\/span>superintendent indicating the school board reviewed his contract, which was temporary, a short-<\/span>term agreement for the year that followed his probationary period. Lee originally expected the <\/span>school board to renew his contract for the principal\u2019s position and for them to offer him the office <\/span>on a permanent basis. With this letter from the top executives and officials, he nurtured fresh <\/span>doubts and fears. After he made a phone call to a few school trustees and the superintendent, he <\/span>realized the school board was unlikely to keep him as a hire and a new candidate would assume <\/span>his position as principal. The superintendent, with whom he was friends, said a few trustees <\/span>questioned Lee\u2019s judgement in hiring Bruin, whose qualifications for the position, they felt, were <\/span>weak and questionable. That seemed like the worst of excuses, Lee thought.<\/span><\/p>\n

The chest pains had been aggravating Lee even before he received the letter. When he <\/span>received the foreboding news, the aggravation started to worsen and overpower him, so he could <\/span>not move from his comfortable swiveling, reclining chair in the principal\u2019s office. By the end of <\/span>the lunch hour and the start of afternoon classes, Lee was struggling to breathe, his face <\/span>contorted in pain, as he experienced a crushing pain beneath his breastbone that radiated to his <\/span>arm and the center of his back. He buzzed for the secretary and, when she did not respond, he <\/span>shouted for the vice-principal.<\/span><\/p>\n

The vice-principal called the emergency telephone number and summoned an ambulance. <\/span>The paramedics gave Bruin oxygen and nitroglycerin tablets for him to place beneath his tongue <\/span>and diagnosed him as likely undergoing a myocardial infarction. Within an hour, doctors and <\/span>nurses examined him, assessed him, and treated him in the emergency department of the rural <\/span>hospital. The healthcare team agreed he needed specialized treatment and a cardiologist. The <\/span>head doctor made the telephone calls to medivac him to the hospital in Thunder Bay for <\/span>emergency treatment and cardiac surgery.<\/span><\/p>\n

As Amy walked to school for her afternoon class, she saw the air ambulance take off <\/span>from the airport nearby, ascending into the clear skies beyond the high school football field. Amy <\/span>wondered who might be aboard the air ambulance. She remembered the air ambulance flight she <\/span>took to Thunder Bay, after the family physician asked her to function as patient escort for her <\/span>mother, who lay comatose after an overdose. The air ambulance impressed her with its sense of <\/span>urgency and professionalism, and its life support equipment, a critical care unit in a light aircraft.<\/span><\/p>\n

During the air ambulance flight of the Pilatus aircraft, the sunset she saw settle beneath <\/span>the horizon of the rugged rock formations and vast waterways and forests of the Canadian Shield <\/span>landscape was the most beautiful and moving she saw in her life. She crouched alongside her <\/span>mother on the gurney and clutched her limp hand. Her mother lay in critical condition, her <\/span>kidneys failing, her vital organs shutting down, a few days away from her ultimate end. Oddly <\/span>enough, she looked more tranquil and serene than Amy had ever seen her in her life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aboard that air ambulance flight with her ailing unconscious mother, as she struggled to <\/span>find hope, Amy first nurtured her aspiration of becoming a flight paramedic. She decided she <\/span>would continue to pursue that dream. The career, she hoped, would take her far from her <\/span>hometown, surrounded by epic, endless rocks, forests, and lakes, and all its unhappy and <\/span>bittersweet memories.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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