Rules of Engagement

by Corrina Angel

The table is long in my memory

And sometimes I think it keeps getting longer

My father at the head

Me, off to his right like some kind of tiny lieutenant

Five

No one else around

Before the coma

Before the police

But after the apartment

He tells me many things at this table

Like how a person is a balloon

And holding them too close will destroy them

And how eye contact is a sign of disrespect

Or flirting, you decide

I am young, and the things my parents say are as good as gospel

So I keep my eyes cast down always

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I am my mother’s tiny lieutenant too

Her navigator

Copilot

Reliant and reliable as well

How convenient that I could sit in the passenger’s seat by the time I was nine

Did you know that it used to be a gunner position back in the day?

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I have so many relatives that used to be in the military

Father, grandfathers, uncles, aunt

Yet I have never actually gotten to know a single one of them

My mother rattles off their ranks, their accomplishments, their commendations

None of this tells me how they felt about it all

No one ever bothered to write that part down

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Sometimes I wonder if a soldier was what I was made to be

If I am drenched in war like battlefield soil gets drenched in blood

If I destined to become the sort of person who stuffs down fear into some forgotten corner

Never looks their betters in the eye

Acts as a finger on an unclean hand

And justifies that uncleanliness to anyone who asks

I am the coerced recruit who wants to go home

I am the first casualty that knows their fate before the order to charge is given

I am useful

And that’s all that really matters